sneaker

She's a sneaky one, that Charli!

i bought charli some clothes!

Today I bought the first clothes I have ever bought for Charli. That's right, I've never bought her ANY clothes before, not so much as a sock. She has been wearing gifts and hand-me-downs for 20 months! But now I have purchased this adorable pajama set, and it was GREAT. :)

vancouver

We just got done spending 3 days in Vancouver before we start our Alaska cruise, and Vancouver is AWESOME! I'd never been there before, but now I have and I love it!

We got into Seattle on Thursday afternoon (the 9th), rented a van and drove up to Vancouver. Why did we do this? Because flights to Seattle were hundreds of dollars cheaper than flights to Vancouver. If you want to go to Vancouver, and flights are cheaper to go to Seattle and you think maybe you can just rent a car and drive to Vancouver, well Don't. The cost of renting a van one way pretty much negated any savings we might have realized, not to mention the additional time spent driving and the problem of getting back down to Seattle once you're ready to go. We took a very nice train ride back, but of course, that costs money too...

Anyway, once we finally made it to Vancouver, we stayed right by Stanley Park, in a cute little place called Rosellen Suites. Our suite was not the most beautiful suite ever, but it was very affordable, totally functional, perfectly located, and pretty much exactly what we needed for the 6 of us. I can't believe I didn't take a picture of the elevator - it was so tiny probaby only 2 people could fit in it, and it had a little knob by the side of the door that spun as the elevator was going up and down, to tell you what floor the elevator was at. I've never seen anything like it!

On Friday, we had a lovely breakfast at the Red Umbrella, and then we went and hung out at the beach. Charli loves the beach. She loves water, she loves sand... We weren't clever enough to bring a cup so she could play in the sand, but it didn't really matter. More importantly, we weren't clever enough to bring her hat or sunscreen, so Brian had to run back to get them. Meanwhile, I stayed and took a thousand pictures of Charli.

Vancouver has a lovely walking/bike path that goes for miles along the shoreline, so we walked from the beach over to Stanley Park. Then we walked around Stanley Park for a while, which somehow manages to feel much more like wilderness than it ever feels like in Golden Gate Park, although I think they are just about the same size. Then we went to the Vancouver Aquarium, which is in the park, and is a very nice aquarium. We saw a 10-minute 3-D immersive movie, where they spray you with water and blow bubbles, and the seats rumble and poke you in the back, and, most realistic effect in my opinion, hit the back of your legs with a string so it feels like rats are running around your ankles. Charli didn't get the back-poking and leg-swishing since she was on my lap, but she watched and was the stillest I've ever seen her for the whole 10 minutes. She wore the 3-D glasses and never touched them or attempted to get them off, and she held my fingers so tightly I couldn't get them loose to scratch my nose or adjust my own glasses for the whole movie.

After that, we met up with a friend of mine that I used to work with and her family, and we wandered around the rest of the aquarium. As they were closing up, we went to see the dolphins - they were VERY interested in the girls, and there was no one else around, so we had them all to ourselves. It was quite exciting. We had delicious Greek dinner and headed for bed.

The next day we managed to get a little further away from our hotel - like maybe to the next neighborhood. We went to Granville Island, via the cutest little water buses. They look just like the boats you float in the bathtub! Granville Island is kind of like Fisherman's Wharf, and Charli was grumpy, so we ended up not spending too much time there. We took a look at Science World but didn't go in, and then we walked back to the hotel via a cute playground, Chinatown, and Gastown (they have a clock. It isn't that impressive). Then we met up with my friend again for a lovely dinner at some fancy place in Yaletown, took a little walk after dinner (during which we saw an extremely bad public dance performance), and headed for bed again.

Sunday was the day of the cruise, so we just went out for breakfast and then went over to Canada Place to get on the boat. On the way back to the hotel, we walked through a cute little public garden, where Charli aquired some flowers. Sam put them in her hair (so cute!), and Charli tried to put them on her nose (so cute!).

good weekend (other than the stress)

Such an eventful weekend we've had! Brian's parents came in on Friday, and we had a lovely lunch at Luna Park. Then we hung out, and then we had Little Star pizza for dinner, and Nina and Bella stayed and had pizza with us. Charli and Bella are so cute together! Also, Charli has learned to say "pizza".

Saturday we went to the farmers' market, where were in time to get empanadas - yay! The peaches were delicious, and there were some delicious white and yellow nectarines, too. And, of course, we got some strawberries... The pear and cherry tomatoes are starting to show up, too, although they weren't very good this week, except at one stall (yay samples! Charli has learned to say "sample"). In another couple of weeks they'll probably be awesome! Then we came home and Charli napped while the Cardinals crushed Kansas - unfortunately, we didn't see much of it because there was a rain delay, so the network decided to show another game in the meantime, and then didn't switch back to the Cardinals after the rain delay was over. Then we had lovely stir fry for dinner, did I don't know what, and headed for bed.

Sunday was Father's Day! Happy Father's Day! *big kiss*

We celebrated by going to the model train over in Berkeley again, this time with Charli wearing her new, special engineer overalls. Next we have to get her an engineer cap - not that she'd wear it. Once again, Charli was transfixed - we rode in one of the open cars this time, and Charli stood by my knee and didn't move for the whole ride. I tried to turn her around once, so she could see the things on the other side of the train, but she immediately turned back and took up her initial stance, so I didn't try again. The train runs out and back, so she got to see everything on the way back anyway. This time we also got to see the other trains running, although we didn't ride them - last time they weren't running. They are small! Charli thought they were pretty interesting, though.

I can't remember what we grilled for dinner when we got home, but it obviously involved corn, because here's Charli eating her first corn on the cob ever! After that, I let Charli bash her head, and then on Monday Jerry and Donna had to leave. Waah!

stress

Last night Charli was taking a shower with me and she slipped and bashed her head on the tile ledge by the shower door. She screamed for a couple of minutes, and then she got over it and played in the water, and then she looked at me and said "bonk". Meanwhile, I was quietly panicking, visions of Natasha Richardson dancing in my head. I checked her head - no blood. I checked her eyes - no dilation. I finished washing her hair while talking myself out of taking her to the emergency room anyway.

Brian put Charli's pajamas on (her) and gave her milk (no vomiting) and read to her while I called the paranoid parents' hotline. The paranoid parents' hotline takes your number and a nurse calls you back, so I got online in the interim, where I found a very nice and reassuring page about head injuries in children that said it was most likely that nothing was wrong. Really I knew that already, but I also remembered reading an article about a little girl who got hit in the head and didn't show her symptoms until 2 days later. I figured the nurse, like the website, would probably tell me that everything was fine, and I should put Charli to bed and stop worrying, in which case, being completely unable to stop worrying, I might take Charli to the emergency room anyway.

The paranoid parents' hotline nurses, however, are very well trained. When she called back, after getting all the details on the incident, the nurse (Clarissa) prescribed a course of action which she probably thought was completely unnecessary, but which made me feel like I was not just sitting idly by while Charli possibly expired during the night: put Charli to bed, but wake her up after 2 hours, 2 hours, and then 4 hours, each time making sure she wakes up normally and recognizes us. If she seems extremely lethargic or hard to wake, or is disoriented, then call 911. Assuming everything is fine each time, then call our pediatrician in the morning and give him an update. Man, those nurses are smart.

Everything WAS fine every time we woke Charli up, and when I called the doctor in the morning, he said that cases like Natasha Richardson (he brought her up, not me) are usually associated with a brief period of unconsciousness at the time of the injury, and since Charli didn't have that and since it had already been 12 hours (and based on all the other details), I probably didn't have to worry about it or even monitor her anymore. Of course, having read that article I mentioned above about the girl who didn't show symptoms for 2 days (and having looked again at all the articles I could find on Natasha Richardson and not finding anything that said she lost consciousness at any time), I am still unable to completely dispel my paranoia, and I will continue to watch Charli very carefully for the next few days, but I really do think she is OK, other than the big knot on the back of her head.

I am also OK, other than the big knot of guilt in my heart for being stupid and letting her try to walk around in the shower while the soap was rinsing off of her. Charli still loves me. *sniff*

cotton

terrific day

Today we had a really terrific day. I thought I'd better write it down, so that we can appreciate again in times to come.

First, Charli slept late. Yay!

Then, we decided to go to the farmer's market at Civic Center, because we were unable to go the Alemany market yesterday. We've been to this market before, and it wasn't very good, but we were pretty much out of vegetables. The weather was so great, we decided to walk over. We stopped at Jackie's Cafe on the way and got delicious lattes, which we finished up just as we reached the farmer's market. Wow! The market is 10 times better than it used to be! There are a lot more stalls, and the produce is way better now, and there's a ton more variety! It's awesome! We got delicious strawberries, and Ranier cherries, and white nectaries, and lots of vegetables, and kettle corn...

Then, we got some breakfast at Max's Opera Cafe, where none of us have ever eaten. A new restaurant! How exciting! It's set on kind of a plaza, so we could take Charli outside to run around without being right next to the road all the time, which was really nice. And breakfast was delicious!

Then Sam had to go to her volunteer art program, and Brian and I took a leisurely route home, including stops at the comic book shop and a baby store (where Charli demonstrated a serious obsession with shoes) and a furniture shop. When we got home, Charli went down for her nap and I looked up projects for making kids' art tables. Boy o boy do I have plans now!

Then Sam came home and we did some deck work, and then we had a lovely webcam with Mom and Dad, where Charli might have come up with a name for Mom: Binka? We'll have to see if it sticks. She seemed to apply it to both Mom and Dad, but I think we'll try to encourage her to actually call them different names. It'll be easier on everyone (except her). :)

Then we had leftover curry, which was not as lovely as it was last night, but it certainly was easy to prepare. And then Charli went to bed, and I worked on lots of blog posts, and now we are right up to the minute with what's been happening! What an awesome, productive day!

I have no pictures of today, so instead I give you this picture from yesterday, and you will just have to take my word for it that we are as happy as Charli is cute.