Wednesday, March 16, 2011

The bummer about being a newborn...

So outside of the fact that you have just been forcibly extracted from the most comfortable place you will probably be your entire life, being a newborn generally seems to be pretty cool. No one really expects much of you and hour every need is sought to, by multiple people. Even if you keep your parents up all night, that's ok. It's expected of you. You really are a little angel when you're born, just because there is really nothing else you could be.

So in light of all that, you would think that having a kid come out of the womb a already be able to sleep for fairly long stretches at a time would be taken as a blessing. That's what Quinn has been doing from the get-go. But it's not a blessing. Now, instead of being thankful that you've got a kid that may turn out to be a great sleeper, you worry about whether he is getting enough to eat. If he eats too much, then you worry about whether he is pooping too much. If he poops too much, now you're worried about some other damn thing.

In a parent, this phenomenon makes you suddenly quite appreciative of things that you never thought you would be thankful for. Today, Quinn woke up at one point around lunch time and started in with a good honest cry - not just the whimpers that he would occasionally blurt out from time to time during the night. How bizarre it felt to be relieved at hearing this cry. And further to let it just continue for a minute or two, just to make sure he was getting good deep breaths in. He's still not really big on the breast feeding thing, but at least we know that he has it in him to be heard.

In other news, he had his ears checked today and they're perfect. It's pretty cool that they can test your hearing before you are even able to properly control your own arms and legs.

-B

6 comments:

Unknown said...

Congratulations to both of you and Charli!! Quinn looks mighty!!

Nina said...

Isn't it also funny how parents talk with other parents about poop (Kacki) and other lovely things we would never imagine before we had children.

Kelly said...

I have never had a conversation about poop...thank you.

Kelly said...

And remember...he will eat when he is hungry and sleep when he is tired. No need to worry.

John was born on a Saturday and we came home on Sunday. He slept from midnight 'til 6:00 am the first night home!! That was awesome, since Peter was 3 1/2 and Katy was only 19 months old. We just let him sleep!!! He has been easy ever since.

Unknown said...

People often look at me funny if I mention a poop story... but only the ones with no kids. Maddy did the same thing when she was born and I couldn't wake her up to make her eat. 5 hours at a time! But she wasn't a good sleeper in the hospital. The nurse talked me into sending her to the nursery so I could sleep only to bring her back a couple hours later. They kicked her out cause she kept screaming! :)

mwei said...

Thanks for sharing these wonderful moments with us. Congrats to all of you! Glad to hear everyone is doing well.